It was sooooo close to being done. I figured it would be too easy, but I was hoping I was being blessed with a relatively easy legal process with the ex. However...its not happening like that now. He decided to get a lawyer at the last minute and try to start the process back over at square one. He is now disputing things in the decree that are ridiculous. Some I figured he would like the custody rules (follow LDS standards in essence) and having to pay child support. He also disputed paying my mom back for a pretty hefty dental bill that my mom paid on for him. The ridiculous thing? He is disputing letting me change back to my maiden name. Really? Why would you dispute that?
So....we shall see what happens. I am just soooo ready to have this done and over with. We still don't know the details of what exactly he is disputing, but I'll be interested on his reasoning why. We shall see.
Sorry Kim :( How did Tuesday at 9:30 go? Good I hope!
ReplyDeleteIt's okay...hopefully it will all be fixed soon. I'm not entirely sure how it went, it was very different than I expected. I should find out pretty quickly what the result is :)
ReplyDeleteThat totally sucks man. I'm SO glad Ex didn't get a lawyer. It took us long enough without that mess. Good luck! Don't give up! I'm shocked he can dispute your name change. That IS ridiculous
ReplyDeleteI agree...I just can't believe he can do this now. We were soo close. He was in default and it was my understanding he couldn't dispute anything once that happened. Apparently I was wrong...his lawyer found a loop hole around it. Argh! But...this too shall pass. Eventually. Hopefuly.....
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